Today on CBS a brightly dressed news anchor reported a story about a man who failed at his goal to cross the Atlantic Ocean in a small wicker craft attached to about 300 helium balloons. The man, Jonathan Trappe from Maine, had already flown across the English Channel and over the Alps using his mechanism, but now he wanted to fly across the Atlantic. The story reminded me of the other recent news article about Diana Nyad, the sixty year-old women who swam from Cuba to Florida without a shark cage, in attempts to break another record. What is it about these Americans that makes them want to do such risky things just to simply win the pride of achieving a "record" or being the "best". I believe that it is rooted from a young age, in the natural environment that american children grow up in.
The idea that kids need to be the best at something, at least as it seems to be impeded in the values of North Shore culture, starts at a young age. Babysitting this weekend, I talked to eight year old Jimmy about the sports he plays. At the young age of eight, Jimmy could already tell me his life plan in the department of his favorite pastime hockey. "Im going to first make it onto A1 travel this winter, then I'm gunna play a lot and make varsity at New Trier as a freshman, and then go to Michigan on a scholarship and play as a center on the varsity team there all my years at college." Surprised that the kid had more of his life planned out then me, we proceeded watching Spongebob. Then he chimed in, that in order to do this he had to take Will's (his best friends), spot on the team. The idea of such a specific plan, that started with the potent goal to replace his friends spot on the team, really got me thinking. It must be something his parents tell him that makes such a young kid want to say such a thing. Of course, it is completely normal for kids to have big goals, but deeper than that, it seems that in the society we live in, kids are raised to always be thinking about how to be the best, the brightest, and the fastest. World record books are a staple in every household, and game shows, and sports games are recorded on every DVR. It is no wonder that when some of these American kids grow up, they feel the never appeased desire to do such crazy things, just to beat everyone out. In a New York times article titled The Competing Views on Competition, Matt Richtel says "I’ve already done my part to promote the value of competition, almost completely unconsciously. I’ll talk about whether the San Francisco Giants just won their game. He knows that someone is going to be elected president and someone else is not." It is virtually impossible to grow up in our society without having some sort of competitive pressure at one time or another, but maybe, this is what makes our society thrive. The deep imbedded value of competition just might be the thing that gets our society thinking about how to solve the next problem, invent the newest medical device or smart phone. Some may argue that maybe then the discoveries and achievements made by people is simply out of self greed. The idea that they want to be the one who is known as the best scientist, or doctor, or computer programer, or swimmer. However personally I feel that maybe this is what is needed in every society. The idea that everyone wants to be the best, so then even if people do things out of personal greed, they do things that help the society grow as a whole.
The point that Carolyn brings up is very evident yet, it has not received much attention as a problem. I think that the competitive drive to a certain extent is good because it makes us work harder and be the best that we can be, but I also think that it can been taken too far. Competition is what helps our society grow as a whole because each individual wants to be the person to do something new, or set the new record. The best in everyone comes out, and the best out of everyone helps push our society forward. When kids such as the one that Carolyn was babysitting are thinking about how they need to take their best friends place, it has been taken too far. I think that before the competitive drive has been set in a child's minds, they first need to learn a quality set of morals.
ReplyDeleteI definitely see where both Carolyn and Isabel are coming from. I do believe that competition allows our society to thrive with new inventions, ideas, and systems. Some may even argue that competition is a force that fuels our nation. However, In addition to not letting competition cause one to forget about their morals, I believe that we also must ask ourselves for what purpose are we striving to achieve the things that we are. It's great to be ambitious. Great that the little kid wants to be on NT varsity freshman year and play at Michigan all four years, but why? What will achieving these things do for him? Will they bring him happiness? In America I sometimes feel like we LIVE TO WORK. Always trying to do more, to be the first, most successful, richest. When really we should be WORKING TO LIVE.
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